CAINTV.COM 5 Hours Ago Politics: Do Paula Deen's words justify ruining her life? by Dan Calabrese By DAN CALABRESE - Speech code. I don't really know a lot about Paula Deen, and whoever/whatever she is seems sort of beside the point. I guess she's an older southern belle with a cooking show, and for some reason she found herself getting deposed as part of a lawsuit - facing the question of whether she had ever used the N-word. Why yes, said the 66-year-old southerner. It's been a while, but yes. Paula obviously doesn't know the rules of modern American culture. Her life is now over . The Food Network said Friday it's dumping Paula Deen, barely an hour after the celebrity cook posted the first of two videotaped apologies online begging forgiveness from fans and critics troubled by her admission to having used racial slurs in the past. The 66-year-old Savannah kitchen celebrity has been swamped in controversy since court documents filed this week revealed Deen ...